May 2013
“The abusive man’s problem with anger is almost the opposite of what is commonly...”
– Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men (via queeringmisogyny)
YEP.
legallyunderage:
swdyw:
killifishes:
no one on here has the appropriate fear of big penises
I can appreciate big thick cock in theory not in practice (not in my narrow tunnels
Same I’m not wrecking my walls.
If y’all don’t stop with this ‘wrecking my walls’ shit. The walls of a vagina were made to pass BABIES through. And ain’t a dick on earth the same size...
doctornajib:
tashabilities:
doctornajib:
thisisthinprivilege:
Thin privilege is being so terrified, at a size 14/16, of being fat-shamed by your GP that you delay going to see him for a symptom that could indicate a serious illness OR be caused by your weight gain OR mean nothing.
I ended up going to see my new GP after months and he found out it was nothing serious. He made no comment...
doctornajib:
thisisthinprivilege:
Thin privilege is being so terrified, at a size 14/16, of being fat-shamed by your GP that you delay going to see him for a symptom that could indicate a serious illness OR be caused by your weight gain OR mean nothing.
I ended up going to see my new GP after months and he found out it was nothing serious. He made no comment about my weight whatsoever. I’ve...
a-brione:
yes i side eye black men that date every body and they mama except a black woman what you gonna do about it
In patriarchy, the onus for initiating and escalating a heterosexual relationship depends on THE MAN. When YOU are the one most often ‘choosing’ and you constantly choose people who don’t look like you and your mama, it’s a issue.
I can’t tell you the number of times a man has met my voice first And then let All The Disappointment In The World show on his face when we meet in person. All the ‘we’ they do on the phone, all the ‘how bout we’ just vanishes when they find out I’m BLACK or they just don’t like my physical packaging. It’s shittier than my words can even convey.
Watchjessehimself:
Wolf Blitzer put his foot in his mouth for a moment on Tuesday while interviewing a survivor of the devastating tornado in Moore, Okla.
“We’re happy you’re here. You guys did a great job,” Blitzer said to Rebecca Vitsmun, who escaped from her house with her 19-month-old son right before the twister tore through it. “You’ve gotta thank the Lord, right? Do you thank the Lord for...
“Please, do not excuse them. In fact we should be harder on them. We expect white...”
– my mother, after a friend tried to justify why some black men disrespect black women (via youngblackandvegan) I’m old as fuck and have NEVER had a Black boyfriend. Not never. And of course, the onus for initiating and escalating a heteromantic partnership in this society is on the man.
I really want some dookie braids, Atlanta. But I am only getting paid part of my cash, not all of it. So I cannot get them just yet. But I suppose that I should narrow down a shop who can hook me up.
ashes8783bb replied to your post: So I called The Paymaster Friday and yesterday…
Alls I know and what should be true: CAN THEY SEND YOU YOUR DAMN COINS!!!!!
Giiiirl, WHERE ARE MY COINS, INDEED! And see, if I make nice with this dude, he can prolly expedite my shit. But we all know that won’t be a free service. I’m just mad that I’m actually thinking about calling this...
positivelysmashing replied to your post: I have heartburn. Fuckin ramen noodles, man,…
Does apple juice really help? My little sister has bad heartburn & is on expensive medication for it, but, “natural” stuff we’ve tried so far hasn’t really helped her.
Yes, LORD! Apple juice will soothe the burn and get rid of the excess air. And Bragg’s Apple Cider Vinegar will cure acid...
So I called The Paymaster Friday and yesterday about my money, right? And both times, they sent me to the same dude, and both times, he was unavailable. Since he hadn’t yet called me back from the first time I called, I left him another message yesterday, but then immediately called the main number back and asked to speak with someone else. The woman I spoke to gave me an ETA on my money...
I have heartburn. Fuckin ramen noodles, man, damn. Need to go get apple juice. My knee and shin and ankle are hurting in a new, different way today. I think the muscles and whatnot healed, and now I might have to work on a bone injury? What do this feel like besides OUCH. I would like my bed.
themisadventuresofmaddy:
do you ever feel like you’re just sort of
there
like all your friends go out and do things and get into relationships and like people that like them back and have fun and do stupid things with their best friends and instead of doing all that you’re just sort of this mildly entertaining thing that people take an interest in once in a while but they wouldn’t really care...
deliciousKaek: curvellas: and the real fucked up... →
frank-e-fighting-words:
tashabilities:
curvellas:
and the real fucked up part about it is we all know that people in the most pain sometimes cause the worst pain. i’m observant. i be looking at the back grounds in these niggas selfies. niggas got mattresses on the floor with no sheets on it, niggas is eating dinner off the ironing board, niggas rooms look like harry potter’s at his aunt and...
deliciousKaek: curvellas: and the real fucked up... →
curvellas:
and the real fucked up part about it is we all know that people in the most pain sometimes cause the worst pain. i’m observant. i be looking at the back grounds in these niggas selfies. niggas got mattresses on the floor with no sheets on it, niggas is eating dinner off the ironing board, niggas rooms look like harry potter’s at his aunt and uncle’s crib, just under the damn stairs....
TW: Discussion of Abuse and Rape Culture
so-treu:
malanga-coco:
do we, as black people, need to talk about how many abusers and rapists have friends, people that love them and people that make excuses for them?
do we, as black people, need to talk about how many male abusers and rapists have women as friends, women that love them and women that make excuses for them?
do we, as black people, need to talk about how abusers and...
IT DOES NOT MATTER IF THE PERSON WHO IS ABUSIVE TO...
so-treu:
BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY, HE’S STILL ABUSING ME.
so i don’t give a fuck if he’s nice to you because that shit APPARENTLY doesn’t keep him from ABUSING ME.
so i don’t want to hear about how nice he is to you and how great of a relationship y’all have UNLESS YOU ARE GOING TO USE THAT RELATIONSHIP TO GET HIM TO STOP ABUSING ME.
i’m especially talking to you, fellow black women who...
2damnfeisty:
Black women don’t ever really get respected for shit we do.
Either we get ignored, mocked and made fun of or have shit stolen from us all while giving the originator no credit.
searchingforknowledge:
jcoleknowsbest:
I’m happy with fucking myself into a stupper for the rest of my life before I ever give an ashy dick nigga a chance at this comeback..
There are even fuck machines now. That are more reliable, have all kinds of features and arent misogynistic woman beating shits. And no issues with unexcpected procreation either.
I need you to know that I’ve...
2 tags
..but the Solidarity!
Black Women: Black men need to do better.
Black Men: What is driving us apart? We need to stick together!
Black Women: Your misogyny is driving us apart.
Black Men: Was it the drug epidemics? Is it whitey? WHERE IS THE SOLIDARITY
Black Women: It's your misogyny.
Black Men: Maybe you hoes are hanging out with the wrong black men, because I love all my black queens.
Black Women: ....Holy shit what is wrong with you
Black Men: You are letting whitey tear us apart!
AND REPEAT
angrybrownbaby:
I despise when people ask me “Is ______ gay/lesbian/queer/trans*/single?” If you’re that curious, ask them your damn self, I’m not spilling anyone’s business.
This is a boundary i had to learn, and I learned it late. My intent is completely harmless and always has been, but too many times, my IMPACT was intrusive. Questions I don’t mind getting or answering are boundaries...
My brother texted me. Crisis averted. He is not moving to The 251, so I don’t have to cuss him out! YAY!
Hi People. I currently identify as heterosexual, so I like men, and I like penis. I am monogamous. I’m currently single and unfortunately celibate. Also extremely isolated. There is a gorgeous man stroking his penis in a gifset on my dash, and I’d like to reblog it so I can look at it forever and always, Because watching an attractive man rough up the suspect is one of my favorite...
heirofmedusa:
theuppitynegras:
are we just not going to talk about the fact Prince William went from Prince Charming material
to this…
Prince William. What the fuck happened?
Damn homie…
I swear that white boy used to be SO sexy to me, And then, something happened. His entire face MORPHED. He started looking less like his mother and more like his father. Even his nose changed...
muckrakingiswomenswork replied to your post: I been on the phone all day behind my cash.SAG…
Finally! And damn that bubba chain was ridiculous glad theyre tightening up
I’M SPENT! I got audio to do, but I can do it later. I’m glad they’re tightening up, too, though. A negress got bills. <3
allcoveredinglitter replied to your post: I been on the phone all day behind my cash.SAG…
I happy that at least part of it will get to you. And I check out a raw food cookbook today at the library.
I need all the help I can get on raw food, honey. Inbox me, if you will, the name of the book so I can check it out, too. The juicer is coming, but I can start getting an understanding of...
On cultural appropriation and the fetishization...
forteriot:
I’m sure that many of you have recently come across this photoshopped image of Willow Smith wearing this shirt:
Watching this circulate on tumblr and FB was/is painful and enraging for reasons that I will get into shortly. But before I do, I want to clarify that my point here isn’t to slander the person who made this shirt, but to hold them accountable to the ways in which they, a...
I been on the phone all day behind my cash. SAG AFTRA says that starting next month, they’re being cut out of the paperwork part of the process, so everything will leave the paymaster and go directly to my agent, shortening payment time by at least a week! But it looks like I’ll have some cash by Thursday. Whiskey Tango FOXTROT, tho. I ain’t had no new cash in over a month, wtf?...
As I lay in this bed with that good diabetic neuropathy making my arms tingle so damn much I can’t go back to sleep,
Mariah is running through my head.
Lead The Way and Never Too Far, both from Glitter, specifically, with an interlude from Rainbow to finish it off.
I also need my charger and dude from the damn paymaster to hit me back.
Playing with my money is indeed playing with my...
I don’t do well with people I like saying and doing dumb shit.
It’s like, I like you because you’re smart, so I know you know better than the shit you’re pullin right now.
I KNOW YOU KNOW BETTER THAN THAT.
But I do tend to ascribe infallibility onto people I admire.
I spend so much time vetting people, and its just exhausting when the time I take is still not enough...
“The casting of Cumberbatch was a mistake on the part of the producers. I am not...”
– Star Trek actor Garrett Wang is coolly generating a discussion with his fans on the whitewashing in Star Trek Into Darkness on his twitter page. (via racebending) Haaaaay, Garrett Wang! What’s good, Boo?
“Someone asked me, ‘When you do ‘SNL,’ are you going to do a skit about the...”
– Kanye West
Yeezy has really always been about that real talk and this is why this nigga ain’t afraid to name his album Yeezus. If black folks can’t be humans it must be because we’re gods.
(via satanic2chainz) I love his dirty DRAWS! Realest mufucka alive. 